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You can experiment with this position to get it absolutely right for you. Clearly if he's a heavy bloke, this might be a problem!

The other difference is that instead of taking his weight on his elbows, the man should simply let his bulk rest on his partner's upper chest. 🐱 CAT stands for Coital Adjusted Technique, but don't let that technical and boring title put you off!

Instead, the stem or root of it is pulled hard against the clitoris – producing great sensations in that all-important little organ. What this means is that his penis doesn't go all the way into the vagina. The CAT positionīasically this is a face-to-face position, but the man 'rides much higher' than he would in the missionary position so that his shoulders and head are about six inches higher up the bed than normal. Here are four sex positions to try with a partner that might help you to enjoy intercourse more and to have fulfilling orgasms at the same time.

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Once you can climax easily on your own, you'll find it much easier to have really exciting times with a partner.īut even if you are the queen of masturbatory techniques, you might still find it tough to climax during full sex, and this will almost certainly be because your clitoris is not getting sufficient attention.

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If you're having trouble in reaching climax, the best thing you can do is to start by learning how to orgasm on your own through masturbation. The majority of women do not climax through 'no hands' intercourse.

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In my consulting room, I've seen many successful women – including lawyers, bankers and TV presenters – who were quite unaware of what it takes for most women to climax and who, as a result, had spent ages blaming themselves and feeling inadequate. Now, please don't feel bad if you'd never really realised this before, because you are not alone. Women, as you probably know, get their pleasurable feelings mostly from the clitoris – which is the bit of them that would have turned into a penis had they developed into a baby boy in the womb, instead of into a girl.įor that reason, most women need the clitoris to be stimulated during sex – and in many positions this simply doesn't happen. And clearly a penis gets a lot of stimulation during intercourse. This doesn't seem fair, because apart from the small minority of men who have psychological difficulties with sex and who cannot relax enough to ejaculate into their partner, most males have no problem at all in climaxing during sexual intercourse.īut of course, in a man, the penis is the pleasure-provider. Even women who can masturbate to a climax with no difficulty can feel quite anxious about 'coming' with a male partner. If you're a woman who finds climaxing easy and can have orgasms during intercourse with little effort – even in a position where it's difficult for your partner to access the clitoris with the fingertips – then you are very lucky indeed!įor the majority of us, 'ringing that bell' is not nearly so simple.

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